tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6619254076380187020.post5746981624565436938..comments2022-11-09T05:14:45.559-06:00Comments on Bump Envy: when did when, turn into if?BumpEnvyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09527690550331243380noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6619254076380187020.post-26480536402341461782011-03-23T12:28:46.552-05:002011-03-23T12:28:46.552-05:00Bump Envy - "so I'm thinking of picking t...Bump Envy - "so I'm thinking of picking the one that's most likely to keep her mouth shut about the whole thing" - EXACTLY!! You have enough to worry about - you don't need to worry that at any moment someone is going to ask you "how's the baby-making coming along"? :)Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14042177880495109253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6619254076380187020.post-43996150647536125022011-03-22T14:57:24.149-05:002011-03-22T14:57:24.149-05:00AV - i do think its a girl thing. my husband is m...AV - i do think its a girl thing. my husband is more worried about me, i think, than having a baby. which is sweet but really, i'll be okay (once we have a baby - ahahha)<br /><br />Mrs. C - i am definitely throwing myself into projects! one of them is working out and another one is work related. i think it helps to keep my mind from wondering but only temporarily. i'm having a hard time picking a friend to tell. none of them are going through what we are so i'm thinking of picking the one that's most likely to keep her mouth shut about the whole thing. :)BumpEnvyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09527690550331243380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6619254076380187020.post-41313874890685864412011-03-22T11:39:40.576-05:002011-03-22T11:39:40.576-05:00Reading blogs like yours and comments like these s...Reading blogs like yours and comments like these seem to really help me through it. Sometimes I even get teary-eyed (which relieves some of the pent up stress) when I read others are feeling the same way as I am. I am 32 and have yet to find the magical off button for stress and worrying. The one that shuts off the constant chatter in my mind as I try to fall asleep. I've decided instead to get involved in projects at home and this beautiful spring weather is making it easier to get outside and be active again. <br /><br />I hope you are able to select a friend to share your experiences with. I shared with one of my sisters - one time - that we are ttc and I think of talking to her about it again, but the possibility of the pity party keeps me from calling...I just want an ear to listen. Let us know how it goes!Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14042177880495109253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6619254076380187020.post-52283838047333484482011-03-21T20:27:02.255-05:002011-03-21T20:27:02.255-05:00"They" always say things happen when you..."They" always say things happen when you stop stressing. Yes, it's def easy for anyone who is not going through something to say "it'll get better" or "stop stressing, it'll happen" but I think as a girl it's in our nature to stress- especially about something like this. But I agree, I think it's good to have a blog to vent, but at the same time, sometimes opening up to someone you know and trust helps too.AV5848https://www.blogger.com/profile/03921132907759374974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6619254076380187020.post-63453986366179273802011-03-21T16:00:24.051-05:002011-03-21T16:00:24.051-05:00tami - thanks for the comment. it so easy to say,...tami - thanks for the comment. it so easy to say, just relax. don't stress about it. its so hard to do. after drinking 4 glasses of wine the other night, i did almost break down and tell one of my girlfriends. instead i drank 2 more glasses and called it a night. i think i am going to talk to someone about it. i'm just deciding which person i should tell...BumpEnvyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09527690550331243380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6619254076380187020.post-92011597137821500462011-03-21T12:35:39.009-05:002011-03-21T12:35:39.009-05:00Let me know when you figure out how to do that.
...Let me know when you figure out how to do that. <br /><br />I was having this exact same conversation with my close friend the other day. I'm totally and absolutely consumed by it all. I've never been on a roller coaster I didn't love- but this one I want off of. Now. But not really. You know what I mean. <br /><br />She told me to "just stop working myself up. stop obsessing about it. it's working against me, not for me". I understand all that, but I don't know how to get out of my own way. How do I not wonder? How do I not do my research so that I'm as informed about the process and possible obstacles as possible? How do I not worry? <br /><br />I also hate that it's taboo to talk about. Like I said, I finally broke down to my friend. But that's after keeping everything pent up for so long. I was ready to burst. But then I don't want the pity at the end of the month. Catch-22.Tuttihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05892495385717172227noreply@blogger.com